Tuesday, May 4, 2010

homework 52

The way humans react with one another in such mysterious ways. Many people do all they can to avoid being lonely even if that can result in poor quality friendships but more of them. Quantity over quality. Friendships can take years to form and often moments to end. We often claim we look for friends that are similar to us so we have stuff in common and can relate with another but at the same time we want them to be different so things are kept interesting. love and status seems to be very common among women where lust and power seems to be priority for men. Luckily these four categories seem to come together. While men seem more interested in short term relationships, women often face the fear of growing old alone. Love has evolved into such a common word that people are very often convinced that they are in love when in reality they are not. In order to love someone I think you have to view looks with less importance although I think it still should play an important factor but not a primary one. Lets face it, the brain is likely attracted to a certain category of looks and features and when that is paired with a fitting personality to the counterpart, then I think the word love can come into question.
In teenage years, friendships are a lot more vulnerable to breaking. I think the main cause of this is the fact that we are changing so much in these years it is hard to predict what we will be like next. Another factor is that we constantly are moving away and changing schools that it is hard to keep in touch. I think that close friendships are vital because they can serve as a go to person. A lot of people go to there parents for advice but often that advice is very bias or uncomfortable to share with them. Close knit friends eliminate that and are easy to share things with. I could not imagine my life without my best friend as I share everything with him and vice versa.

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